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Every Little Stupidity Enshrined Forever for All to See

TL;DR: There was a time when doing something stupid in public meant your friends laughed and the story faded. Now nearly everyone carries a camera wired straight to the internet, surveillance is everywhere, and the dumbest thirty seconds of your life can outlive you. This essay is about what that permanence does to all of us.

I remember, long ago, when you could do something stupid or silly in public and not have to worry about it. Yes, your friends had a good laugh at your expense, and it might even have been scandalous, but the accounts were all verbal, albeit occasionally someone took a photo, if they happened to have a camera. The photo was on film, had to be developed (which took days usually) and was difficult to copy and distribute. Those were the days!

A camera in every pocket

That’s not true anymore. Now everyone, almost literally, carries at least one camera at all times. Worse yet, that camera is usually attached directly to the internet, the place where stupidity is enshrined for all time.

Actually, it’s even worse than this; there are surveillance cameras almost everywhere these days. In any city (in the United States at least) you cannot walk a block without being captured on video by one or more cameras. Every business has multiple cameras recording everything that goes on constantly.

You can be absolutely sure if you live in a city you will be captured on camera multiple times per day.

In some countries permission is needed to publish images; that’s not true of the United States. Your image is not private and can be published at will; there are exceptions to this rule (such as a picture taken without your permission where you had a reasonable expectation of privacy), but you can generally assume if someone snaps your picture, they can publish it.

Anyone who hangs out for very long on any social media site such as facebook is familiar with the phenomenon of surveillance videos going viral or the drunken photo appearing on the wall of everyone whose is friends with an ex-whatever.

What it all means

So what does it all mean? Is it really important that your picture is taken dozens or hundreds of times each day, that you appear on a video countless times each month, and that hundreds, thousands or even millions of people can observe what you’ve done over and over?

Those pictures enshrining your stupidity can be important. More than a few job offers have not been made because of one silly drunken photo on facebook. People can and do get fired when photos of stupid or even criminal circumstances are found. Many relationships are changed forever when that video they made, just for themselves, one night somehow got released on the internet soon after the breakup.

Maybe it’s not such a bad thing after all.

Perhaps the result is we should be more aware that we can be photographed at any point in our lives, and those photos and videos can be used in any way.

So my thought is to take note of this and start behaving in a way where it does not matter if anything you are doing at the moment in public is made public.

Perhaps it’s time to start behaving ethically and sanely in public; and if you don’t you accept that your little (or big) slip-ups will be enshrined for all to see.

It’s just a random thought from someone who woke up way too early on a Sunday morning.

Frequently Asked Questions

What changed about doing something dumb in public?
It used to fade. Your friends laughed, maybe someone had a film camera, and the story died a natural death. Now nearly everyone carries an internet-connected camera and the dumbest thirty seconds of your life can outlive you.
Is the permanence all bad?
Not entirely. Knowing everything can be recorded is a reason to behave ethically and sanely in the first place, which the essay lands on as the practical takeaway.
How should we act now?
As if the camera is always on, because it usually is. Take note, behave like it matters, and extend some grace to other people whose worst moment got enshrined.


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