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I’ll Write It Myself Someday

TL;DR: “I’ll write it myself someday” is a polite way of saying never. Someday isn’t a day on the calendar. The conditions that stopped you for the last five or ten years are the same ones stopping you now, and they’ll be the same next year. You’ll still have a job, family obligations, a Netflix queue, and a lawn that needs mowing. Life doesn’t pause to let you write a book. It keeps coming.

You’ve been saying it for years. “I’ll get to it eventually.” “Once things slow down.” “I just need to find the time.”

2026 is here. The book is still in your head.

You’ve been planning this book for five years, ten years, maybe longer, and the conditions that stopped you back then are still here and will be here next year. A ghostwritten book gets done without waiting for them to change.

Nothing changes while you wait. You’ll still have a job. You’ll still have family obligations. You’ll still have that Netflix queue and those emails and that lawn that needs mowing. Life doesn’t pause to let you write a book. Life keeps coming.

I’ve written 113+ books. I’ve ghostwritten for Fortune 50 executives whose books helped them raise over $30 million in venture capital. I’ve watched hundreds of people carry their books around in their heads for decades, fully formed, ready to be written.

And that’s where those books stayed.

The Uncomfortable Math

Life doesn’t pause to let you write a book.
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Let’s say you need 60,000 words for your book. At 500 words a day, that’s 120 days. Four months. Sounds doable, right? For more, see why don’t I just write it myself?

Except you won’t write 500 words a day. You’ll write 500 words on Monday, skip Tuesday because of that meeting, tell yourself you’ll catch up on Wednesday, feel guilty Thursday, avoid thinking about it Friday, and start fresh “next week.”

By March, you’ve got 8,000 words and a familiar feeling of failure.

Looking for "Someday" on the calendarA hand-drawn wall calendar for March titled Looking for Someday on the calendar. The first week reads: Monday, 500 words; Tuesday, skipped, that meeting; Wednesday, catch up, didn't; Thursday, feel guilty; Friday, avoid thinking about it; Saturday, mow the lawn; Sunday, start fresh next week. The other weeks fill up with job, emails, too tired, lawn, and once things slow down, and every Sunday says start fresh next week. After Sunday is a dashed red column headed Someday, with a magnifying glass over it and a note: day not found, checked twice. At the bottom: by March, 8,000 words and a familiar feeling.Looking for "Someday" on the calendarMARCHMonTueWedThuFriSatSunSomeday?2500 words!3Skipped.Thatmeeting.4Catch up(didn't)5Feel guilty6Avoidthinkingabout it7Mow thelawn8Start freshnext week9Emails10Job11Job12Kids'recital13One moreepisode14Lawn15Start freshnext week16Once thingsslow down17Job18Emails19Job20Too tired21Lawn22Start freshnext week23Job24Emails25Job26Dentist27Too tired28Lawn29Next week.Really.Day not found.Checked twice.By March: 8,000 words and a familiar feeling.
Looking for "Someday" on the calendarA hand-drawn wall calendar for March titled Looking for Someday on the calendar. The first week reads: Monday, 500 words; Tuesday, skipped, that meeting; Wednesday, catch up, didn't; Thursday, feel guilty; Friday, avoid thinking about it; Saturday, mow the lawn; Sunday, start fresh next week. The other weeks fill up with job, emails, too tired, lawn, and once things slow down, and every Sunday says start fresh next week. After Sunday is a dashed red column headed Someday, with a magnifying glass over it and a note: day not found, checked twice. At the bottom: by March, 8,000 words and a familiar feeling.Looking for "Someday" onthe calendarWeek of March 2Mon500 words!TueSkipped. That meeting.WedCatch up (didn't)ThuFeel guiltyFriAvoid thinking about itSatMow the lawnSunStart fresh next weekSomeday?Day not found.Weeks 2 to 4: job, emails, lawn, too tired, "oncethings slow down." Every Sunday: start fresh nextweek.By March: 8,000 wordsand a familiar feeling.

That pattern is what happens when writing isn’t your job, your expertise, or your daily practice, and I don’t count it against anybody’s character. You’re asking yourself to be consistent at something you’ve never been consistent at. While also doing your actual job. While also living your actual life.

The numbers work on paper. It rarely works in practice.

Why “I’ll Do It Myself” Feels Right

Writing your own book feels like the honest way. The real way. Hiring help feels like cheating, like the book won’t really be yours.

But think about every other area of your life where you’re successful.

The CEO doesn’t feel guilty about having an assistant handle his calendar. The surgeon doesn’t apologize for having nurses prep the patient. The entrepreneur doesn’t insist on doing her own taxes to prove she’s a “real” business owner.

Successful people delegate constantly. They focus on what only they can do and get help with the rest.

Your book’s value comes from your ideas, your expertise and your story. Whether you personally typed each sentence at midnight in front of a blinking cursor has nothing to do with it, and I think the guilt people attach to hiring help keeps as many good books unwritten as the lack of time does.

Who finishes writing a book?

After 45 years of writing and watching others try to write, I’ve noticed a pattern. The people who finish books fall into two categories.

The first group has unusual circumstances. They’re retired. They’re independently wealthy. They have a job that leaves mental energy for creative work at the end of the day. They can carve out four hours every morning before the world interrupts.

The second group gets help.

Guess which group is larger?

Writers aren’t immune. I’d like more fiction ghostwriting, but fiction projects that pay are hard to find. I did write one for a well-known musician. That was pretty fun. In 2024 I also had a novel of my own that I’d been working on for years, an unfinished thing from long ago, and I decided to get it done. I know. I should hire myself as a ghostwriter.

What Someday Really Means

Someday is comfortable because it lets you keep the dream without risking the reality. As long as the book stays in your head, it’s perfect. The moment you start writing, you have to confront the gap between what you imagined and what you can produce. That’s terrifying.

So you wait. You plan. You think about it. You tell people you’re “working on a book” because thinking about it counts as working on it, right?

Meanwhile, that book in your head helps no one. It builds no authority. It generates no revenue. It changes no lives. It won’t be there for your kids or grandkids. It won’t establish you as the expert in your field. It won’t open doors or start conversations or create opportunities.

An imperfect book that exists beats a perfect book that doesn’t. Every single time.

The Brutal Truth

You’re probably capable of writing your book yourself.

The question is whether you will.

Answer with what you’ve done over the last five years, and leave what you hope to do out of it.

If you were going to write this book yourself, wouldn’t you have started by now? Wouldn’t you have more than a folder of notes and good intentions?

If the answer is “not anytime soon,” then someday has already become never. You just haven’t admitted it yet.

Will You Write the Book or Not?

Another year of “I’ll get to it”? Another December where you realize the book is still just an idea? Another round of promising yourself you’ll definitely start when things calm down?

Things don’t calm down. You know this.

Or you can decide that 2026 is the year the book happens. Not because you finally found the time. Because you finally got honest about needing help.

I work with executives, entrepreneurs, coaches, and consultants who have books in them and no realistic path to writing them alone. We talk. I write. Your book exists in the world instead of dying in your head.

Book a free consultation and let’s figure out if working together makes sense:

https://thewritingking.com/booking-form/

Every year that book stays in your head, the people who could use what you know go without it. Nothing about someday costs more.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do most people never write the book themselves?
In my experience, the conditions that stop someone from writing today are the same ones that stopped them five or ten years ago, and they don’t change on their own. You still have a job, family obligations, and a lawn that needs mowing, so the free time you’re waiting for never shows up. I’ve watched hundreds of people carry a fully formed book in their heads for decades and never start, because writing isn’t their daily practice or their expertise. The idea of 500 words a day sounds simple on paper, but life interrupts, and by March most people have a few thousand words and a familiar sense of failure.
Is it worth hiring help instead of writing it myself?
If the book has stayed in your head for years, yes. The honest measure is whether it’s getting written. A ghostwriter converts your knowledge into a finished book on a real timeline instead of an imagined someday.

About the Author
Richard Lowe, professional ghostwriter

Richard Lowe is a professional ghostwriter and author with 113+ books authored and 54+ ghostwritten. Before writing full time he spent 33 years in enterprise technology, including 20 years as Director of Computer Operations and Technical Services at Trader Joe's. He writes nonfiction, fiction and memoir, and works with executives and experts on books that build authority.

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Disclaimer

The views and opinions expressed in this blog post are solely those of Richard Lowe and are based on personal experience and research. This content is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as professional legal, financial, accounting, or business advice. Always consult with qualified professionals before making important business or legal decisions. Richard Lowe is not a lawyer, accountant, or licensed professional advisor, and this content does not establish any professional relationship.

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