Eliminating Distractions | What Happened When I Unplugged My TV for a Decade

I unplugged my television, put it in a closet, and left it there for a decade. Friends called it technological suicide. They were concerned. How would I know what was happening in the world? How would I relax after work? What would I do with my evenings?

I wrote over 50 books. Built a ghostwriting business. Published 113+ books for clients. Read thousands of books. Took 980,000 photographs. Built detailed model kits. Lived more in those ten years than in the previous twenty combined.

The television was not the problem. The television was the symptom. The problem was passive consumption disguised as living.

What Does Screen Time Cost You?

The math is simple and brutal. The average American watches four to five hours of television per day. Add two to three hours of smartphone scrolling, social media, and casual internet browsing. That is six to eight hours daily spent consuming other people’s content, reacting to other people’s opinions, and watching other people do things.

Multiply that by a year. You get roughly 2,500 to 3,000 hours. That is enough time to write three novels, learn a language, build a business, or master a craft. It is not enough time to do any of those things and also watch four hours of television every night.

I am not doing abstract math. I write 10,000 to 12,000 words a day. That output exists because those hours are not going somewhere else. When people ask how I produce so much, the answer is not talent or discipline. The answer is that I do not watch television, I do not scroll social media feeds, and I do not read news that has no impact on my actual life.

The News Is Not Informing You

I stopped consuming news media over a decade ago. No cable news, no newspapers, no news magazines, no news websites. This decision horrified people more than the television.

Here is what I discovered: nothing changed. Every piece of news that actually affected my life reached me through normal human interaction. Coworkers mentioned relevant events. Friends shared important information. Anything I needed to know found its way to me without my spending hours absorbing coverage of events I could not influence and that had no impact on my daily decisions.

What the news was actually doing was generating anxiety, outrage, and helplessness. It was training my brain to react emotionally to things I had no control over, which drained the mental energy I needed for creative work. The news industry does not exist to inform you. It exists to capture your attention and sell it to advertisers. Your anxiety is their product.

I check weather.gov when I need a forecast. That is the extent of my news consumption. Everything else is noise.

Social Media Is Engineered Addiction

From Author Talks

Kim Groshek spent thirty-five years in tech, then deactivated social media for six months and her phone for a year to find out what living without them was like. She journaled the results and described them on Author Talks.

Social media platforms are designed by teams of engineers and psychologists whose explicit job is to maximize the time you spend on the platform. Every notification, every infinite scroll, every algorithmic recommendation exists to keep you engaged longer. Your attention is the product being sold.

During my 20 years at Trader Joe’s managing computer operations for a $16 billion company, I watched social media transform from a communication tool into an attention extraction machine. The technology is not neutral. It is optimized for engagement, and engagement means triggering emotional responses: outrage, envy, validation seeking, fear of missing out.

I am not telling you to delete your accounts. I am telling you to understand what the platform is doing to your brain while you use it. Set specific times for social media. Disable notifications. Treat it as a tool you use deliberately, not a feed you consume passively. The difference between using social media and being used by it is whether you decided to open the app or the app decided to interrupt you.

Your Phone Is Not Your Friend

Smartphones create the illusion that being reachable at all times is normal and expected. For most of human history, people were unreachable most of the time and civilization continued functioning.

Unless you are an emergency responder or on call for a critical system, there is no reason anyone needs to reach you within seconds. Disable notifications for everything except phone calls. Check messages at set intervals. Let people know that you respond to texts when you check your phone, not when the text arrives.

This single change, moving from reactive phone use to scheduled phone use, will recover more productive hours than any productivity system, app, or technique you have ever tried.

What Happens When You Cut Out Screen Time?

When I eliminated passive screen consumption, I did not replace it with more work. I replaced it with doing things. Writing, yes. But also reading, building, creating, learning, and being present in my actual life instead of watching representations of other people’s lives on screens.

The first week was uncomfortable. The silence felt wrong. My brain kept reaching for the dopamine hit of new content. By the second week, I started filling the space with projects I had been putting off for years. By the third week, I could not believe how much time I had always had and never noticed because screens were consuming it.

Creativity does not require inspiration. It requires space. Eliminating distractions does not give you more time. It reveals the time that was always there, buried under hours of content you will not remember next week.

The Books That Go Deeper

I wrote an entire book about this because the problem deserves more than an article. Turn Off the TV, Get Off Your Ass, and Do Something covers how technology companies systematically capture human attention and convert it into profit, leaving users mentally exhausted, socially isolated, and creatively bankrupt. It provides the practical roadmap for digital detox without requiring you to reject technology entirely.

The Death of Thinking examines how AI and algorithms are eroding critical thinking and independent judgment. Sins of the Internet is a brutal examination of how social media and digital platforms exploit fundamental human psychology for profit while destroying attention, relationships, and democratic society.

These three books together cover the full scope of what digital dependency costs you and how to take your life back.

For writers specifically, the AI-Enhanced Writer’s Productivity Handbook applies these principles directly to building sustainable writing habits and eliminating the chaos tax that kills creative output.

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